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Being remembered brings Hope!

Sorry for the delay in getting this post out. As those of you who have been following me know I am in the country of Timor Lest now and the internet here is a bit dodgy :-).


Today I met a superstar. He drove into the parking lot in his blue mini Moke (like a dune buggy). It had shiny chrome role bars that matched the color of his greying hair. His handshake was firm and his smile winning as he, in a warm baritone voice greeted me with a friendly, “Bom Dia”. And while he seemed like an ordinary citizen, short of stature and slight of build, José Ramos-Horta was something considerably more.

Timor Leste had been a Portuguese colony for more than 400 years. When it received its independence in 1975 young José had played an important role in the independence movement. One might have expected then that, when after a few months Indonesia invaded and annexed Timor Leste, young Ramos-Horta would be called to also play a role in the in the new independence movement. Instead he was sent away by the country’s leaders, called upon to serve as Ambassador for the Timorese to the world. It was a difficult time for the young man. His task was a lonely and seemingly hopeless one.

Only after nearly twenty-five years of exile he was able to return home to a free country. On his return he was amazed at all the people who recognized him and wanted to shake his hand as a hero. Believing that it should be the ones who had stayed behind and fought battles on the homeland who should be welcomed in such a way, now middle aged José asked why he had been greeted so. The answer came, “Because you gave us Hope! When we thought the world had forgotten us we would hear your voice on the radio pleading our cause and we knew that we could hold out a little bit longer. Thank you!”

For his efforts in the peace process that ended the war with Indonesia and gained Timor Leste its independence, José Ramos-Horta was awarded, together with the Catholic Bishop of Timor Leste, the Nobel Peace prize. He went on to serve his country as Prime Minister and President. And since his ”retirement” from public service in his homeland he has served as a UN Special Representative to Guinea Bissau and more recently on a committee to evaluate the UN Peacekeeping force.

From the parking lot I led him to the hall where he would be speaking. I don’t remember all that he said, but his main message was – When everything seems impossible. When you feel as though your courage and strength will fail. Remember, there is still is Hope. Never give up Hope!”


Creativity, Cultural diversity, Motivation, Personal Development, Perspective, The world around us

The glasses we wear

A thought to ponder!


Is it:

  • A blessing or a curse?
  • An opportunity or a problem?
  • Beautiful or ugly?
  • Best to be first or best to be last?
  • Too fast or too slow?
  • Pleasure or pain?
  • Talent or luck?
  • To hot or too cold?
  • A burden or a blessing?
  • A loss or a gain
  • Fate or providence?
  • A miracle or a coincidence?

Is it this or that….. or somewhere in between?

It’s not what you look at that matters, but what you see.

—————- Henry David Thoreau



Equality, Freedom, Freedom of Religion or Belief, Grief and loss, Human dignity, Human Rights, Justice, Minority Rights, The world around us

A jet-lagged post

I arrived in Dili this afternoon after more than 24 hours travelling. I wrote yesterday’s in the airport in Singapore (no I didn’t mean Dehli, if you don’t know where it is, look it up :-)). Right now I am very tired and frankly not sure J can write anything very intelligent, Therefore, I’m going to take a short-cut.

To give you something to ponder on today I’ll refer you to my friend, Aykan Erdemir’s recent article on how the recent coup attempt on Erdogan may strengthen Erdogan.

Check it out here:

Let me know what you think :-).

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The Dignity of Difference

One thing I’ve learned from my many years of travelling is that while all humans undoubtedly are very similar in many ways, they are all also very different. Too often in Human rights work and Peace work I’ve noticed a tendency to over-emphasize the similarities and downplay the differences. It is as if by acknowledging the differences we would in some way automatically add fuel to the fire of conflicts based on differences. But, what if we were to change our perspective and look at difference, not as a threat, but as a possible resource: a resource for new and creative ways of addressing common challenges.

Taking up just this challenge, Jonathan Sacks, former Chief Rabbi of the United Hebrew Congregations of the Commonwealth from 1991 to 2013, has written an inspiring book entitled, The Dignity of Difference:How to Avoid the Clash of Civilizations. Today I’d like to share some of the thoughts and questions I picked up from this book as well as some thought-provoking quotes.



“Too often in today’s world, groups speak to themselves, not to one another: Jews to Jews, Christians to fellow Christians, Muslims to Muslims, business leaders, economists and global protesters to their respective constituencies. The proliferation of channels of communication – email, chat-groups, the Internet, online journals, and the thousands of cable and satellite television channels – mean that we no longer broadcast. We narrowcast. Gone are the days where people of different views were forced to share an arena and thus meet and reason with their opponents. Today, we can target those who agree with us and screen out the voices of dissent.”

How can we create unity without conformity?

Can difference (diversity) be a source of value?

The twentieth century in many ways was dominated by the politics of ideology. The first part of the twenty-first century in many ways is dominated by the politics of identity.

A shared experience and challenge for much of humankind is how to maintain identity as a minority

When religion is invoked as a justification for conflict, religious voices must be raised in protest.

“War speaks to our most fundamental identity: there is an ‘us’ and ‘them’ and no possibility of confusing them.”

“War appears to be as old as mankind, but peace is a modern invention.”

“… we need to search – each faith in its own way – for a way of living with, and acknowledging the integrity of, those who are not of our faith. Can we make space for difference?”

“Difference does not diminish; it enlarges the sphere of human possibilities.”

Only when we realize the danger of wishing that everyone should be the same – the same faith on the one hand, the same McWorld on the other – will we prevent the clash of civilizations, born of the sense of threat and fear. We will learn to live with diversity once we understand the God-given, world-enhancing dignity of difference.”


Words of wisdom to ponder and meditate on :-).

Cultural diversity, Equality, Freedom, Minority Rights, Personal Development, The world around us

Ramblings about Identity

Today’s blog post is a bit incoherent. Really it is simply a bunch of disjointed ideas I have floating around my head. Nevertheless, I hope some of my thoughts resonate with you :-).


Who am I? Who are you?

Identity is created by contact. It is not a fixed quantity. Context determines which group identity I will choose as most prominent at any given time. Group identity can foster an “us” and “them” mentality.

Nationality – A question I’ve been asked on numerous occasions is, am I more this or that; more Norwegian or more American? Does the question refer to my ultimate allegiance or is it asking about my way of thinking or cultural identification? Am I one or the other? Or perhaps a hybrid; both and at the same time, neither nor?

When my oldest daughter was a child she was once told that by having an American father and a Norwegian mother she was half American and half Norwegian. I still remember the indignant look on her face as she answered that she was neither half this nor half that. Rather she was one hundred percent American and one hundred percent Norwegian.

Religion – An expression I have heard a lot in Norway and the US in recent years is, “Muslims are …..” Fill in the blank. If the speaker is critical to Islam, or to foreigners from “Muslim” countries he/she may then go on to describe any number of negative stereotypes. In a similar vein, if the speaker is positively predisposed to Islam or Muslims, he/she may describe a number of positive stereotypes. Is one more correct than the other? If I were, in the phrase above, to replace the word Muslim, with the word Christian, Jew, Atheist or any other religion or worldview, I’m guessing that many would react by saying that it is impossible to make a blanket statement about nature or character of any individual based solely on his/her religion or worldview.

Conflict – Is religion the deepest identity we have, trumping all others? I’m reminded of the war of partition (1947) between what would become India and Pakistan (East and West). It appeared as though religion was the primary identity marker; Hindu vs Muslim. Yet, just over two decades later (1971) East and West Pakistan entered into a civil war. Both sides were Muslim, but now the key identity marker was culture and language.

In conflict between one group and another, it seems that we have a propensity to judge “the other” based on their most despicable members, their most offensive actions and their worst character flaws, yet when we judge our own group we look at our most noble members, our most gallant actions and our best character attributes. Hmmm. Perhaps I need re-evaluate how I view “the other” as well as how I view my “own”?

What unifies us? “Hatred is the most accessible and comprehensive of all the unifying agents. Mass movements can rise and spread without belief in a god, but never without a belief in a devil.” Erik Hoffer – The True Believer, 1952

Question/challenge to self – In a world filled with variety, how can I cultivate a habit that looks for positive attributes in all people in order to be more inclusive in my self-defined group identification? And in this way perhaps contribute to nurturing a culture of respect for and acceptance of diversity, including “the other”, in order to lay a foundation for peaceful co-existence.

Perspective, Stories from life, The world around us


In 1987 I traveled with my soccer team from the USA to Europe to play a number of friendly matches against teams in Austria, Germany and Czechoslovakia. Most of our meals were in restaurants. From the states we were used to being served cold tap water with all of our meals. In Europe we never experienced this.

Then, when we had given up hope, after a hard morning training session, we went into the hotel restaurant for breakfast and there on the table were small glasses of water in front of each plate. Finally, someone who understood the needs of hot, sweaty soccer players. Several of us sat down, reached for our glasses and tipped the contents down our throats…… It was vodka!!!!!

Always smell your water before you drink it. Looks can be deceiving J

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Polarization in Turkey

As I have an early flight to catch tomorrow, this post will be very short.

This post is for those specially interested in current affairs and specifically Turkey.

Written prior to the attack in Istanbul yesterday, my friend, Aykan Erdemir (former Turkish MP and now with the Foundation for the Defense for Democracies – ) wrote an article in the journal Turkish Policy Quarterly.

The very short synopsis of the article is – Increasing governmental authoritarianism as well as growing social and political polarization has contributed to domestic violence, diplomatic isolation and economic slowdown. Current work on creating a new constitution seems to be misguided. A more incremental approach which focuses on strengthening civil and political rights and liberties is needed to reverse the negative spiral.

Happy reading :-).