Motivation, Personal Development, Personal meaning, Perspective

Cultivation

And speaking of Happiness (see yesterday’s post). One way of promoting happiness is to not seek it directly. Rather, work on cultivating a number of positive attitudes and see what happens. One positive attitude that I find lacking in our so-called “Western” culture is thankfulness.

 

Being thankful is linked to feelings of happiness, contentment and other positive feelings. An article in Harvard Medical School’s online newsletter highlights this. Here are six ways the newsletter suggests that we can all cultivate an attitude of gratitude J:

 

Write a thank-you note. You can make yourself happier and nurture your relationship with another person by writing a thank-you letter expressing your enjoyment and appreciation of that person’s impact on your life. Send it, or better yet, deliver and read it in person if possible. Make a habit of sending at least one gratitude letter a month. Once in a while, write one to yourself.

Thank someone mentally. No time to write? It may help just to think about someone who has done something nice for you, and mentally thank the individual.

Keep a gratitude journal. Make it a habit to write down or share with a loved one thoughts about the gifts you’ve received each day.

Count your blessings. Pick a time every week to sit down and write about your blessings — reflecting on what went right or what you are grateful for. Sometimes it helps to pick a number — such as three to five things — that you will identify each week. As you write, be specific and think about the sensations you felt when something good happened to you.

Pray. People who are religious can use prayer to cultivate gratitude.

Meditate. Mindfulness meditation involves focusing on the present moment without judgment. Although people often focus on a word or phrase (such as “peace”), it is also possible to focus on what you’re grateful for (the warmth of the sun, a pleasant sound, etc.).

(http://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/in-praise-of-gratitude )

Why not give them a try?

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